I have been on the sidelines quietly reading all the goings on. [img]/forums/images/icons/blush.gif[/img] To be honest, I'm a cat person so I did not feel qualified to put in my .02 about dogs. [img]/forums/images/icons/smirk.gif[/img]
When I was growing up we always had outside dogs. Because there were only four neighbors within a mile of our house and you had to go another mile before you saw the next neighbor, we allowed our dogs to run loose. As far as I know they never caused any problems for any of our neighbors. We always got them fixed so they never wandered very far and they usually didn't bark unless someone came up the driveway or they spotted a critter in the edge of the woods. When I grew up and got out on my own I had a couple of dogs but it just did not work out for me, living in the suburbs of Houston. The last dog I owned was a Llasa Apso that hated our cats and behaved horribly because of it. In her old age she got to where she would poop and pee in the house no matter how long I made her stay out to do her business. After she died that was it for me and dogs. I don't dislike dogs, you understand, I just don't have a place in my life for them.
On the other hand, my wife and I have four cats in the house and we love them to death. We have two more that live outside that we claim and about six more strays that feed on our porch and have not been hauled to the pound only because I haven't had the heart to send them to an almost certain death. [img]/forums/images/icons/crazy.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/icons/frown.gif[/img] As mentioned in another thread, I am fortunate that my outside pets/strays do their business on the drunk's lot next door. (He,he,he!)
I believe that you know how *NOT* to treat a dog, i.e. neglected, tied up and ignored, un-loved, etc. I also believe that you have gotten some frank, honest opinions from several folks who definitely *DO* know how to treat a dog and that explains why you got some gloves-off comments/criticism from them. Aside from a few jabs, which I do not think were meant to be malicious or intentionally hurtful, I think most responses were aimed at making sure that you are well informed and that you do what is not only best for you but best for whatever pet you choose for your family. I can see where you feel that you were ganged up on but I think it is just a matter of selecting a topic which a lot of people are passionate about and the passions came out. Just be glad you are discussing pets and not politics! [img]/forums/images/icons/shocked.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/icons/grin.gif[/img]